Understanding Baby Cries: 6 Simple Ways to Tell What’s Wrong

Crying is a baby’s only way to communicate, and it’s never just “fussiness.” Based on decades of experience and research, we know that babies cry for a reason—usually hunger or physical discomfort.
Since babies can’t use words, they rely entirely on body language and tone of voice to express their needs. Learning to read these signals can help you understand what your baby is trying to tell you—and bring comfort faster.
Here are 6 practical tips to help you decode your baby’s crying and respond with confidence:

1. Pay Attention to Body Language
Fast kicking, arched backs, clenched fists, or a red face often signal pain. Slower, upper-body motion with rooting may mean hunger.

2. Listen to the Cry
A steady, single-pitch cry usually means hunger. A shrill cry that rises and falls--Varying in Volume and Pitch is a sign of pain or discomfort.

3. Watch Closely while Feeding
If your baby latches, sucks well, and stays latched, they’re likely hungry. If they latch briefly, pull away, and cry, they may be in pain, not just hungry.

4. Burp Often and Gently
Trapped gas and bloating can cause discomfort or even projectile vomiting. Frequent burping relieves pressure and prevents painful build-up.

5. Don’t Stick to a Strict Schedule
It is VITAL to remember that every baby’s needs vary day to day. Instead of fixed ounces or feeding times, follow your baby’s cues. Hunger and fullness change with activity, growth, and blood sugar levels.

6. Know When to Stop Feeding
Once your baby slows down and stops sucking or turns away, stop feeding—even if the bottle isn’t empty. Overfeeding can lead to gas, pain, and spit-up.

The more you understand your baby’s body language and tone of voice, the more confident and calm you’ll feel as a parent. With time and practice, you’ll be able to meet their needs before the crying escalates.

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